(Using my last name in place of the
word "world", is not a typo. It's just me being clever.)
In May of 1951 my class had just
finished the sixth grade. Going through six years of school at
Alderson Elementary had given me some degree of security in knowing
who I was and what I was doing in this world. After all, those six
years were at the same school, but this graduation was something
different. We were going up to the high school building, to run
with the "big dogs" and that was a very uncomfortable feeling for
me. That year as a seventh grader was horrible. Suddenly all that
experience in elementary school was no longer there and I remember
feeling totally helpless. I didn't know what I was doing and what's
more, I was even afraid to ask. Later on, when I learned what the
word paranoid meant, I realized I resembled that definition. As time
went on most of that insecurity had disappeared and I was finally
beginning to feel comfortable.
One of our classes was Social
Studies and the class was held in the same room that H. Roger McVey
taught Chemistry, and Woody Bower taught Biology. Our Social Studies
teacher was Miss Hallie Jones, and she was an imposing figure. As
students, most of us hadn't reached our full height and I recall
Miss Jones was taller and bigger than we were. Most of the time I
remember her being a very nice person. I saw her at my mother's
beauty shop, around town, and at the Baptist Church at some youth
meetings.
One of those meetings was a Halloween party which Miss Jones was the
chaperone and it was held in the basement of the church. Miss Jones
had an older sister who was there helping out. She had on a witches
costume with a black handkerchief over her face that with the black
pointed hat you could only see her eyes. A dance had just started
and kids were picking partners. I ran over and said to Miss Jones'
sister, "Come on you old hag, lets dance". I remember seeing her
eyes peering at me thru that mask as we were dancing. Little did I
know it was an omen to what would come later.
On a funnier note, Miss Hallie will probably be remembered by the
fact of carrying a Christmas present around in the back window of
her car for many years. Everyone would ask her about the present and
she said she never got around to delivering it and it was now too
late.
As I stated Miss Jones was a very
nice person, but there was a time when I didn't think so. One day,
just as we were entering the class room, students were taking their
seats. As I entered the room, unknowing to me, my friend Davy
Fisher had just pushed Jim Meadows' books on to the floor. Davy
called to me and said, "Barry, sit here", and I did. Jim returned to
his desk, in which I was now sitting, saw his books on the floor,
grabbed me, lifting me out of the seat, and started to twist my arm.
Miss Jones, observing this scene from her desk came over where we
were and slapped my face. I'm standing there wondering, "Why is Jim
twisting my arm?" " Why is Miss Jones slapping me in the face?"
Needless to say I was surprised and felt as if the most unjust thing
in the world had just happened to me. It wasn't till later that I
sorted the whole thing out. Miss Jones did not see Davy push Jim's
books on to the floor. She just saw the books on the floor and Jim
twisting my arm, putting the oblivious conclusion together, came
over and slapped me. I can only attribute it to frustration with
having to putting up with kids.
I didn't deliberately speak to
Miss Jones for a long time after that, however I got over it and we
were cordial again. I don't think that day was ever discussed
between us, and although I know what really happened, I'm not sure
to if she ever did.