It is with in check and an immediate denial, as the
financial advisers do, that I must warn you, this is my opinion,
your situation is well ,your situation. Please consult with your
adviser before taking any action! There no guarantee this will work
for everyone, or even anyone, however, it seems to work for me!
I have been married for 45 years now, and so I do
have some experience in the arena! My advice all males is learn to
do housework and to do it well. I have become without boasting,
after all if it is true its not a boast its just a fact, quite adept
at cleaning, removing the garbage and generally in our home, keeping
Now I confess when I first got married I was a slob.
No one had ever requested me to do any housework so none had ever
been done by me. Now my wife was extremely clean and extra
ordinarily neat. That was the way I perceived it in early years of
our marriage. I could not cook, nor clean, nor contribute much of
anything in that sphere ,I just sat there like a big blob. Finally,
after sizeable agitation and anger, I realized, not only was I
wrong, but the boys were becoming just like me, non working, or
contributing, non cooking, or handy parasites.
We, myself, and the boys did a total turnaround, we
all learned cook. I began to cook and take out the garbage with
great vigor, soon was able to clean our home and make it spotless.
I did not even want Barbara to get involved, this seemed to make
her so happy.
Today, and for the past 36 years our home has been
spotless, the boys became very good at cleaning, not as I am,
however, that is a personal opinion, but very adept. Anyway my wife
really really likes me for doing this, and what astounds me is how
important and vital this task was rated by her. For me it is a
wonderful tonic for love and marriage. What do you think?