Man comes into this life naked
and alone having no idea about the world in which he has entered. He
has come from what seems like nothing. The first time he opens his
eyes he is staring into the face of a loving mom. After some
fumbling and groping he learns the basic skills of survival. He soon
discovers that a simple whimper will bring food, a clean diaper or
the warmth of the loving arms of the mother.
By the age of two he has learned to walk, although he is crude at
it, he seems to feel that he can speak the language, though he is
the only one who can understand it. He has free range in the house
and the fenced in back yard, he is closely watched from a distance
but is tethered to a responsible adult if he goes close to or in the
By the age of five not only can everyone understand his words, but
he has learned how to use them to get what he wants. By now he has
just about finished up putting together his character. The parents
start the slow process of cutting the apron strings by starting him
For the next thirteen to seventeen years it is a pure learning
process, whether it be class subjects, sports, music or what ever he
chooses to spend his time on. He learns how to socialize with his
peers and the adult world. Hopefully sometime during this period he
has decided on what career he wishes to procure. This is the slowest
and most painful part of growing up, every person proceeds at their
own speed and by their own methods. Usually before college he will
have changed his mind a dozen times of just what career will suit
him best and about the same number after he starts college. At some
point along this journey he will make another life changing decision
when he meets the one he would like to spend the rest of his life
with. Just like the process of choosing a career, it will probably
take several tries before he makes his final choice.
The next period he marries, starts a family and pursue his career.
This is the struggling period of his life, the survival period with
mortgages and car payment and childrenís shoes that seems to change
sizes about every other paycheck. He struggles with trying to
promote him self at work to get that next promotion. He has trouble
trying to balance his time between the job and home.
He enters that period when his children are going through their teen
years, when they believe he can do nothing right and to top it off,
is the dumbest person to ever to walk the planet. The family car
suddenly becomes some sort of vehicles that will seat at least
Finally his children go off to college and one morning he looks
across the table and there sits a total stranger. For the past
twenty years all conversations, questions or ideas were made with
the children being the vocal point. After a time he starts
rediscovering his wife if he is smart, itís the perfect time to
start dating her again. Bringing home flowers and going to dinner.
After all there is no need for babysitters or worry that homework is
Suddenly there are graduations and marriages and soon grandchildren.
Finally you get to treat a child the way you wanted to when yours
were little, but could not or would not take that chance. Now he can
spoil them for a few hours and then send them back home.
Soon and without warning he is slipping into retirement years. The
years he has looked to for so long. How many times had he paused at
the job and saw visions of all the things and projects he would be
able to do. Time to travel and experience the good life. It turns
out to be a pretty good life except for a few restrictions. He and
his wife are now under the care of doctors with simple to complex
He now must get an OK from his family doctor and two specialist
before he can go more that five miles out of town. Soon his vision
and his hearing start to go and the arms and legs just donít work
like they are supposed to.
He realizes that he is a seventy year old man, with a ninety year
old body and twenty year old mind.
Soon he is again at the place where he may have free roam of the
house and the back yard, but must be tethered to a responsible adult
if he goes near or in the street.. At night he must wear depends so
he doesnít make a mistake in his sleep. If he is lucky he will go
meet his Maker before he is bedridden and a living vegetable. When
the end comes, he leaves the same way he came into this world. Naked
and alone to a place where he knows what he has heard and read
about. If he goes the way he should, he will pass through a new
birthing, and when he opens his eyes he will be looking into the
loving face of his God.